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Name: Qian
Country: Malaysia
Metro: Kuala Lumpur
Birthday: 3/23/1985
Gender: Female
Interests: singing
dancing
playing pool
swimming
talking
mamak-ing
kissing
Expertise: what expertise? making a fool of myself?
oh yeah, getting into accidents.
Occupation: Student
Industry: Other
Message: message me
Member Since:
9/18/2005
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| Sorry I haven't updated this blog in ages. But the reason being is that I've shifted blogs, a long time ago, actually. Hehe... you can find me here. Don't worry. I'll be maintaining this account so I can leave comments on other xanga blogs. But most of my entries are on my other blog. See ya!
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| Things I would like to do before I leave for Oz.
1. Go clubbing
2. Have a girls' night in
3. Meet up with my fellow Starbuckians
4. Have a farewell party (if I can find the time to organize it)
5. Go to Esquire Kitchen
6. Visit HELP (again)
7. Eat butter chicken
8. Go to Jinjang for duck rice (Yuen!!!!)
9. Watch as many movies as possible
10. See at least ONE of Erin's "reconstructions"
11. See all my girlfriends drunk
12. Try not to cry
Things I HAVE to do before I leave:
1. Get my visa
2. Get my medical checkup
3. Pick up my air ticket
4. Find the perfect pair of jeans so I can buy two of those
5. Have dinner with my family
6. Get drunk
7. Don't cry
Things I have to do while I'm in Oz:
1. Study (hard!!!!)
2. Find a job
3. Find a church
4. Join a dance class
5. Learn to cook
6. Try, as much as possible, not to put on weight
7. Decide whether I want to go to DTS
8. Go on holiday to Melbourne & Sydney
9. Study
10. Don't put on weight
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| I know probably most of you have realized that I tend to neglect this blog, as I don't really use it for blogging per se. But just for fun, here goes. This is my dedication to all my chocaholic friends.
My dearest boyfriend came back from Adelaide, armed with chocolates galore. And I couldn't help but to be extremely amused at some of the lines on some of the bars of chocolates found on Nestle's "Heaven".
1. one for me. one for me. one for me. one for me. one for me....
2. eat it with your sneakers on and it's practically a workout.
3. great, now you have something to eat on the way home
4. just when you thought you'd never find true love
5. to share or not to share. there is no question. (my personal fav)
Aside from that, I have also received 2 bottles of Bacardi Limon, so girls, you know what that means.....PLUS I have a little somethin which I brought back from s'pore, which we can all enjoy together.
But back to Chiam. SO. the SWEETEST present i have EVER received in my ENTIRE LIFE was a bottle of port wine, bought with love, and chosen with care. The grapes which were used to make that bottle of wine was 3 years old. The processing took another 3 years. And the age of the wine itself is 15 years. Plus that together, and you get....that's right! 21!!!!!
Isn't that so sweet??!!!!
ok, i know i've embarrassed him enough already. But REALLY.
*sighs contentedly*...what did I do to deserve such a sweet guy?
ok, you guys can leave now. go. shoo. toilet's just around the corner.
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| well, here i am. stuck in this mess. maybe i'm just askin for it.
sigh....well, since it's come this, now what?
where do we go from here? where does anyone go once they've crossed the line, into the danger zone? the point of no return...
the line between acquaintance and friend. it's a thin line. but once u cross that line, boy, are u in for it.
so for what, u say?
i guess it's a little like love. someone once told me, "Love hurts. I would even venture to say that if love did not hurt, perhaps it's not true love after all." And yet we know love to be a wonderful and joyful experience.
i think friendship, true friendship is like that. bittersweet.
like a coin, you can't have one side without the other.
or like a vodka lime. it's just gotta be a mix.
and maybe it's just easier to run when the going gets tough.
but i wanna stick around.. just so i can be there for the laughs.
and sometimes, that just means you gotta be there for the tears as well.
to care or not to care? that is truly the question....
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| I really can't stand self-righteous prudes. You idiots. What makes you
think you are better than anyone else? who are you to impose your
beliefs or values on others? what makes you think that WE are the
"lesser beings"???? WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE??????
I have a right to express love and affection if I so wish! I'm not
hurting anyone, and if you can't deal with it, then maybe you just need
to change your freakin perception. and wipe those freaking
CONDESCENDING looks OFF your fugly faces! just because you're such a
freakin coward that you dare not break out of the norms of your little
boxes which you call life, you call others "inappropriate", "indecent"
or "slutty". take your pick. i'm pretty sure you've at least thought
it, even if you haven't actually said it, you fucking cowards.
all you judgemental self-righteous manipulative bitchy people think
that as long as you ain't said anything means it's all good. well,
lemme tell you that it ain't. i'm sick and tired of being
misunderstood, and criticised. because that's all you bitches know how
to do! TAKE A GOOD LOOK IN THE MIRROR before you even point out other
people's flaws. how's that for a change? WHAT? CAN'T SWALLOW IT????!!!!
and don't think that you can come to people saying, "oh, i didn't
realize i hurt you.", "oh, what's the problem?", "why are you so
upset?", "why are you so angry?", "you can always turn to me".
BULLSHIT! IF you were really so concerned abt how others felt, you'd
change your fucking attitudes instead of being busybodies trying to
fish for information.
*Disclaimer: this is the product of my thoughts and
emotions, and it is my prerogative to write what i wish on my blog. if
you feel offended by anything i've said, you are most welcome to leave
and never revisit this site ever again. however, do consider the REAL
reason you are offended/upset/traumatised by this post. you may seek
counseling online, or any private practitioners if you so choose. and
you may approach me to find appropriate counseling services and i will
try to help you out as much as i'm able*
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